“Peaceful holidays” with kids almost sounds like an oxymoron, doesn’t it? We may want peaceful holidays, but holidays have a well-founded reputation for being chaotic. And if we’re spending any time with our family of origin, we may even call them stressful. What can we do, then, to bring a little Peace on Earth right back to our holiday experience? Is it even possible? Indeed it is, but it’s going to require three important shifts that only we can control.  In good news, they’re life skills that we can amplify year-round to make the entire process easier. And not one of them requires that you hide your head in the…