Why Your Child Matters Most  A couple recently interviewed was asked what mattered most in their marriage. The unanimous answer was ‘our children’. You would have naturally expected each to mention their spouse, but, the children topped their list.  The irony is that a notable trend seen in the past 20 years as reported by New York Times is that most couples no longer view children as essential to a happy relationship. Children ranked low in a survey, What Makes Marriage Work, and yet when adults face divorce or family feuds, children take the center stage and child custody battles set in immediately.  When divorce happens, legal experts agree that…