In our house, before the day even begins—before Charlie is up asking me what’s going to happen for the day, and while David has already left for work—I find myself thinking about what needs to be done. While Gerald is still sleeping on the couch like he owns the living room. In those quiet moments, I think about the places that hold the most memories for my family, not only for Charlie, David, and me, but back when Suzanne was here too. And for me, the grocery store always comes to mind first. What about you? I can still see it in pieces when I think back far enough. Taking…