Yesterday was Charlies Birthday and I  worked hard to make sure he had the “best Birthday” ever even though I struggled as I was missing my mom.  I knew she was in Heaven and that I would be seeing my dad next week as he would visiting for Christmas. Once Charlie opened his Gifts I had him call his grandpa to “Thank” him for his Birthday Card. Not even dreaming he would tell me he was not coming here for Christmas. After a quick family meeting, my sister and Nephew and I have decided to go up to my dads for Christmas this year. Now, to keep our visit a…