As a child we shouldn’t ever wish for our parents to divorce or separate which wasn’t common when I was a child. But if it had been then my parents should have divorced because all they did was argue. Staying together for the kids isn’t the best option. I’m a verdict of that adage and would never do that to my son. I ‘ve told Charlie this from the time he was old enough to understand because he see’s his friends parents staying together this and it’s hurting the kids. By no means is my relationship with my husband perfect but were not going to get a Divorce ever but…